Maybe hold off the next trip until you feel you need it. I was curious about how old your kids are so I went back to your first thread and loved your comment about turning the Titanic around.
Funny about this whole sitch, because of the anger issues your H has always had sort of made you "miss" that he wasn't/isn't simply being an a**. I went through that as well. Don't know if realizing earlier would make things any different really but just thought it was interesting.
You H was testing himself while you were gone. That I would bet on. My H comes into my room and lays down, looks around, what not, I think to see if he feels comfortable. Of course, I think he has been doing it for a while but only infront of me for the last few weeks. I have to agree with something Jack said too. It is the confusion that really seems to be the hallmark of all of this. If they knew what they really wanted, I think they would just simply act on it right away. Any thoughts?
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
