Thanks for the support! I figured i went way over the edge by calling her out. I just could not belive when i asked to have time and for her to leave me alone for awhile she called me a name and got mad at me. I want the M to work but I just get so tired of the day to day stuff she throws my way. I have a hard enough time taking care of the kids and she has yet to pay for anything. I feel like she just gets to play and the courts dont care. the stress im under everyday trying to pay for daycare, the bills, food getting the kids taken care of everyday and then she acts blames me like im the reason for everything she has done wrong in her life. Im the bad person because i was trying to save our M, when we lived togeather I helped out so much! she is being so selfish