Questions of the day. My H sent some stuff back to me via the kids. I’m not happy with this, they should not be used as ‘go-betweens’. We’ve previously discussed this and I thought we agreed that we wouldn’t use them in this way. So what to do, 1. Email requesting that he doesn’t do this again which would set a boundary but may annoy him; he may respect this eventually? 2. Let it go, keep the peace even though I’m unhappy. Is it too trivial to bother with?
I wouldn’t care if any other friend returned stuff through the kids, but then he’s not any other friend is he?