No news today, but -

Our anniversary is coming up.

There's no way I can win on this. If I send her a gift/flowers/whatever, that just breaks the LR techniques and likely makes her mad about trying to "buy" her back or something.

But if I don't, she'll get angry that I forgot/ignored our anniversary.

I can't figure out which one is worse. She'll be angry either way, but which one will be the least worse option?