Spoke with my Ex today for 2 1/2 hours. Talk about wierd. We both commented that it was like we had never split up. It was so easy, so comfortable, so natural. We both love eachother and have an unbreakable bond. She concedes that she went "nuts". I conceded that their were things about me and my communication style I need to work on. The elephant in the room of course is that she is married and lives 1500 miles away. I can forgive the affair and her behavior (she really went crazy). The question is how to progress forward. I guess for now, it is a "friendship" of sorts. We were always best friends. We enjoy talking to eachother so much it is hard for either of us to end the conversation. The contrast between now and 18 months ago is staggering. We both commented " What happened to us?" This is too freakin' wierd. MLC is some bad stuff. Pray for us. We might even make it. I never thought we would be here.
Me- 47 W- 45 Married 22 years Together 30 years No Kids, 1 dog, 1 Cat 2005 - 2007 W in MLT 1/08 - Crisis hits 3/08 W drops Bomb and leaves in the middle of the night. Admits to PA 4/08 W files for divorce 8/08 Divorce final
