I'm sorry you had a sleepless night, but I can understand as I had plenty myself when I found out about X's infidelity.
Your H has been withdrawn w/two women now, so it seems as if there is an ingrained pattern here that isn't going away. In a sense, as much as I hurt for you, I pity him. He is not much of a man.
He lied to you about the affair and reading those letters has to be very painful for you.
I guess, at least now there are no more questions. I know that isn't what was hoped for w/all of this, but at least now you know and you can move forward w/your life while H becomes XH and sits and tries to find himself. However, he is no longer your problem.
I'm very sorry for you, my friend. Finding out one you loved was deceitful and so dishonest really stings. I've felt the same sting, so I know how much you are hurting. I only wish there was more I could do from way over here.
