Dia, thinking about "involvement" - you're right. I think even more right. Anyone that says things like that without being asked IS doing something. They may not KNOW they're doing it but they are.
Serenity - and there was me "preaching" to you about taking things one at a time - feel a bit like a hypocrite after the moans above. (And I think bugger off is some sort of derogatory term but you're forgiven)
Coach - thanks for dropping in and making SURE I saw the quote
Kara - good to see you. And you can rhyme
Bollox to all of that crud. It's the day of the party
I AM going to sort this out with him though. I did my 24/7 stuff ten years ago and GAL. Now I really have to come home because I actually have responsibilities and they are in the right order! Home, the animules and me all need looking after.