I feel the same way. My w said her counselor told her not to bother offering me chances to change if she thought change was not possible...so she didn't offer me even a week to change. Said she didn't want to waste her time.
Then I look at all the time and money she has wasted pursuing a divorce for what she thinks are greener pastures and for what I know is the destruction of our family and taking away a possibility of a whole family for our 7 month-old son...it makes not sense that she is prepared to "waste" an infinite amount of time on divorce, but not on working on the marriage. After 4 years of being married, I'd expect some better treatment than that...friends tell me that alone is why I shouldn't bother with her anymore and just move on, protect my interests, and focus on my son. Accccccccccch! This is hard to take. Do you feel that way to v1olin?
