This was the very same question I asked in my thread. My wife has recently filed for a final court date to try to end it sooner than later. She is feeling the heat but so far no real signs of "coming to her senses." I hope your wife is not as stuborn as mine.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final