Hi SG. Thanks for asking. Its been a while. I'm fine. I'm in protection mode for my D's right now. W moved out, has my D's (for the most part). I'm pretty sure about an A now. Just couldn't see it while I was around her. Never fully detached. For everyone DBing: Please, please, please detach. You will never fully understand the sitch unless you completely detach. Do not get into a false sense of detachment. If you have to ask yourself,"Am I detached?". You are not! Listen to your instincts!!! I can't really say that I am DBing anymore. The legal monster has gotten a hold of me and it is brutal.