It's MY life now!!!........

[Silent Chrleader]

Well, I've been doing OK, but have been finding myself wanting to talk to H about our R. Since I have decided to go ahead and get the D, and we have been getting along and working together, I often feel like I would just like to talk with him about all that's happened! I sorta feel like now he has no reason to clam up or lie. I am not chasing him. I would just really welcome the opportunity to clear the air so to speak.

But, I know that would be a mistake, and he would see it as chasing. And I don't want to damage the good footing we are on now.

As it stands now, for reasons I won't go into here, we will do a legal seperation for 6 months then convert it to a D. I'm thinking that maybe, if I still keep feeling this desire for a discussion, maybe I will approach him about it during that time....... I don't know.......

Well, I'm off to dance lessons!