I can't imagine reading through all that crap. I am proud of you for kicking him out tonight. He has earned all the disdain you can heap on him. To lie consistently for 3 years! It's really too much to bear. I hope you will get some sleep. The sooner you are free of him the better.
Me thinks you will be taking off Thursday from work and try and rest a bit. Today is now the deadline and he failed horribly, not only as your H, but as a man, as a human being. You have done all you can do and no reason to kick yourself. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and feel the tremendous number of hugs and loving thoughts coming from all over to you from us.
((((((Maria)))))
hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Kalni... I am just sick for you. I've wanted to throw up all night, after reading your initial update. You have truly done more than any other human being would do. Get some rest. Get some meds, if necessary. Just know that YOU can look in the mirror and be proud of the reflection.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Hope you were able to get some sleep...I know those nights can be exhausting - and more than just physically so...It must be terrible to read those words...to see that deception - but please never forget that you have always been true to yourself and your children through all of this...he's been selfish and cowardly - while you've been the epitome of honesty and strength.
Sending warm hugs your way from southern California...
Never slept. Yes Carlos, reading those words was...draining. I feel like a fool. I feel so stupid. 3 years in a relationship, doing all the things we should be doing to save our family. She is pathetic, begging, telling him she will go to Cs, pointing out all the good, how they were meant to be together, asking for another chance...
He hasnt replied to many. Most of these were "help me with my decision, lets just be friends, I love you"...
Today I need to finish work, pack and sleep. I need some energy and a lot of strength. K
