Thanks for the post. I will go back and read your posts. I do not think an A is involved in my sitch. I am not naive, it just doesn't feel that way, and I have looked for signs of it - there simply is NO evidence of it. Despite that, NOTHING would surprise me anymore.
As you will see from my post earlier tonight, I think the last few days have shown me I need to slow down and stock back up on patience. W keeps showing positive steps, but they remain baby steps. I will just keep reminding myself that time is my ally right now, even though it doesn't feel that way.