Should OP know the truth?

[peacetoday]

SF
I think it is a hard call to be totally honest
At this point in my story, I dont think it will matter either way
or maybe it will
MY xh already knows the truth
but one can only run so long

as for OW
I think some OW might feel guilt
I sense I am dealing with a very sick OW
one who enjoys watching her man destroy his life
one who lives to inflict pain
one who has encouraged my xh to self destruct
I will say nothing to her at this time
she can have XH
I am free

so SF

I think whatever you choose will be ok
pray -mediate -journel and listen
the answers are within you
so much of the time I think it just doesnt matter what we do
nothing really works to wake them up
it is only something they can do for themselves
maybe detaching and really moving forward with our own lives is
the real solution
peace