TIG: Well, I guess the thing is this. She's been gone a while. You've changed/she changed.
DB C has told me you have to be friends again before you can open up romance. She said Friends, then romance, and only then do you get to bring up your hurt.
She has opened up to you. She knows she made a mistake. It is possible that she might do something about it.
Yes, you can be friends with her. I think you could consider granting temporary insanity. Maybe stick with friends on your part, and see what she does.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D