You mean to tell me that she was totally naked? How immature is that??

Listen, it is all about control with her. She wants full control over your life and she will use any means she has and will take your anger and any other negative reaction before she will take being ignored or outdone. She wants to have all the power over you and the child. If you have schedules visitation rights then she needs to stick by that. If she pulls this stunt again, don't sit around the house watching her and certainly don't "help" her when she gives her commands. Instead, just tell her you don't play her kind of games and that you are leaving.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!