After my H stopped being Mr. Nice Guy to me (unless I deserved his niceness), I begin to see his strength and power more clearly and appreciate him more.
BINGO... Read that over and over again...
Well said Sandy. How true. I don't think I will ever understand why the "nice guy" can't see this reality. No matter how much that fact hits them in the face they just keep trying more of the same, with a slightly different slant.
And the story continues on and the nice guy keeps hoping.. day after day, month after month.....
Maybe today she will see how nice I am and come running back to me with open arms.... maybe tomorrow.. and the story continues....
meanwhile the guy with confidence strength and backbone has women doing anything they can to be with him... as the "nice guy" wonders why and tries again to win her love the next day....
How long Orich? 9 months on this site and counting. How long?
