I want to join the hit squad. Well, I guess that explains why you never got the feeling that he was "in", no matter what his words. Oh, he makes me mad.....
I think gForce is right, he doesn't have the spine to commit to anything.... he may well end up with nothing. It's hard to feel too sorry for him though!
You know where to find me, Maria. And you know that you don't deserve to be treated that way. We all love you!
So now it's out there.....no wonder he wasn't doing what it took to really get back in. And of course taking the cowards way of not doing what it takes to get out either.
Looking at your timeline on your signature, that means they were together a year before you guys had your 'bomb'??
What total crap! I cannot even imagine, I mean I can to an extent b/c my H had a long-term A and I intercepted their text messages to each other. But still! To lie about it for all this time, was he going to pretend to get back together and continue? Grr!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Pictures in bed, out walking in Malta, Budapest, Italy, Greece... Pictures in a villa in the jaccuzi, with friends of his, email about "how can you stand being with her, you said it yourself, you wanted out 2-3 years ago" dated April 2007, then asking for his forgiveness, telling him to go counceling, about his anger, telling him the kids are used to the sitch, that she will not have kids because he said so, love notes, thousands of them, meetings, discussions, she was devastated, telling him their love needed no kids to bond etc etc...
I cant believe it. He came here and said he did it on purpose to leave his email logged in. Bullshit. THe pC was off. I found her email account password, his scret account password under a different name, things he had NO intention to share.
I asked for money, quick divorce, wished him a happy life and to watch his dick because he is about to have another baby.
She is a very clever pursuer all this time. But she had already been asking for all the things I was. I was shocked because it was like reading my own letters. Identical. Every word. Same songs he dedicated to me, dedicated to her, same books I quoted, she was quoting... Freaky.
He has no balls and I told him that. I also told him he is less worth that the gum I have stucked udner my sole. And kicked him out.
And yes, I WAS monitoring the PC since Jan. He never used it to log on or I may have missed it because I wasnt checking anymore... But still a major fool I am...