I haven't read much of your sitch but I think I know everything I need to know about your W just by reading this latest blast from her.
And everyone is right - do not respond. BUT, just in case you do (but you won't) definitely don't say you're sorry, as she's expecting this.
But don't respond.
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10