Yes we did have that talk. She took it as a threat instead of a genuine effort on my part to communicate my needs as well as the seriousness of the situation we are in. Right now we are at a stalemate. She has decided that she is happy having become low sex drive and I am, and always have been, happy in my high sex drive state. She was compatible with me in the beginning but she has, admittedly, changed to LD for what ever reason. Obviously, this is not what I signed up for. She says she is willing to try to find a way to "manage" our differing sex drives but I know what that means. It means that physical intimacy will always be on her terms and I will always be left with a hole where my once fulfilled sex life was.
