Wow, your H... exhorting concessions out of you as a condition before he will (only) help fix a situation he caused. What a piece of cr*p he is!
You're a far better Christian than I am, Karen, being kind to him even in the face of such slimy behavior on his part. I'd get too angry, want to knock his teeth in -- and I'm usually a fairly peaceable person. (Your H would make even Mother Theresa want to deck him!) I'll try to learn from you instead.