I have had so many "Talk"s about this I am just absolutely flabbergasted as to what to do next. She told me that she feels like I am not wanting to buy a house or have kids because this "sex thing" is not where "I" want it to be and that I am trying not to get too attached because it will be easier to leave when things don't go the way "I" want. I feel like we have gotten NOWHERE in the past year and a half. I told my wife that sex was just like all the other important things in a marriage. If both people can't reach a place where they are comfortable then the relationship will fail. It is the same thing with communication, support, emotional connection, etc..... It really makes me wonder if maybe I am wanting too much and that my needs are actually unreasonable.
