Finding it impossible to get my former login name & posts back after a friend "helped" me clean out my computer, I'm back with a new alias.
In short, I spent over two yrs faux dating, using my new found R skills & basically getting on & off the merry-go-round while my H kept his affair going steadily.
We are now 6 wks away from a D date & full swing into negotiations both w/financial & Child visitation.
About 3 weeks ago he asked if I'd be interested in counseling, after finding out that while we're still pro per, I have a hard hitting attorney backing me & ready to go.
Last week, I had meeting w/ attorney where I found out just how deep H is going to have to go to call it a day.
Add to that the fact that I met someone beyond H's expectations (gotta watch those, both ways)the day after I decided to let go.
So, I laid it all out for H & got another attempt @ "Maybe be should just forget this whole thing."
I do believe he's still with OW (3 yrs) & she of course doesn't know of his attempts.
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As I told you... When you showed her you let go and when you showed her that there may be someone else in the picture that could possibly pull you away from her... Is when the tide began to turn....@Gucci loafer
The tide has turned, I just don't know if I want to stop the train. So far I haven't answered any of his attempts, except with "It's too late." Don't know if he believes me. Don't know if I believe me.
