Enjoy yourself, John! Jeff, even if my best girlfriend backs out, maybe I would come on my own. I am sure you would be willing to meet up for dinner if it isn't too far from you...
Today has been busy but good. 90% of school clothes have been purchased, all with garage sale proceeds. I consider that 'free money'--it was never in the bank so I never had to take it out!
The other night when Dan said I thought he was a pedophile/rapist, I sent him a text before I processed everything and let go. It just said that I did not think he was either, the truth is I always had felt i was in competition with the strippers and porn and didn't like that.
Well that was two days ago. Today on the way to the movies, I got a text from him out of the blue. "By the way I don't go to the strippers anymore they just annoy me. Anyway what law firm did you go to"
So I guess the whole stripper thing must have struck a nerve. I found it funny that he addressed not going to strippers but not the porn part, since I know he was still buying that crap as recently as 2 months ago...
I just replied back asking why he needed that information. He said he was going to go see a lawyer for advice/information and did not think he should go to my lawyer. He said, "I am not putting anybody on retainer or anything like that, just think I need information."
If he is in full disclosure, that he makes $180K, I have the kids 80% of the time, was stay-at-home-mom, and that he is 100% the one choosing divorce, I doubt the numbers will be pretty. Add in the cattle enterprise and the $80K in 401K and it will be bleak on his end. His only bright side will be if he can dump 1/2 of his debt on me, since I am officially debt free except for the mortgage...
Anyway I texted back the name of my attorney (who is also not on retainer yet but i didn't mention that) and let it go.
Tonight is 'his' night, instead of enforcing them I just keep track on a calendar whether he sees them or not and for how long--the other night it was one whole hour...
