Dear H, I too am new here so don't know if I can be of much help. But I got some excellent advice on this board I'll share w you. Our situations are sort of similar except you are younger than me :-). No kids, my H also moved out, in March & the past 2 wks has been "wanting to talk" about us to "go our separate ways". So I have been panicked @ how to deal w this. There are no quick or easy fixes as you know, but what I keep hearing is focus on yourself. Read this & see if it helps.
I am sorry for your pain, and wish you the best. Reading these posts often gives me insight, now if I can start applying the wisdom! :-) Good luck.
