You've got strength and beauty that he is a fool to throw away. The kids are the main problem? I don't believe that either. OW is asking for counseling, too, you know. He just lacks the courage to commit one way or the other. He is the one in limbo - that is self imposed. Makes no sense to me why he would choose to live like that.
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