Putting Out the Fire with Gasoline...

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I was here Still Smoldering. But, now I am moving here because.......I am officially divorced. As of July 30th. Got the paperwork on Saturday. I took a moment to cry. Then I invited my friends over and we drank a nice bottle of Veuve and toasted out of my wedding glasses...to my new life.

It hurt for a couple days...and it will again. They are now planning their wedding...oooh in Vegas, invite by Evite and FB. I wanted to ask if McDonald's was catering it? Sorry, bitter, still (just a tiny bit, though...seriously).

I hope my friends from newcomers find me. I thought it was appropriate to move on over. I've been in newcomers for 2 years. Maybe because I was in denial and it still, to this day, feels new.

I am far better off today than I was just a few months ago and getting stronger each day. Mostly, when I go weeks without having to deal with my Ex.

But, now the gasoline.....he hasn't paid any child support. She's 14 months. He was out of work and got a large bulk unemployment check..almost 10K. I knew about it. He lied and said that he hadn't settled with unemployment. I called him out and told him all I wanted was a payment or two so we could catch up and I could buy her a new car seat. He said he had bills to pay. So, I said, "fine, you leave me no choice. The court says I need to go through support services." He said "go ahead". So, I did. And, finally after 2 months, I got my appointment and my case is open.

Ex got his paperwork, too....yesterday. Haven't heard a peep out of OW or X. I am anticipating the absolute worst behavior from him. The Fit is gonna hit the Shan. He is going to explode. So, I'm just waiting. Have my plan to walk away and put it all on him. He told me to go to CSS. He always complains that I don't listen to him. This time I did.

Stay tuned....hope everyone here will welcome me in their forum.