Thanks antlers, here is what I put in my reply. I tried to incorporate both into what I feel is the correct response for me. I do not know how she will react, nor do I care/
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On your other question: That is your decision to make, and I will go and abide by and accept your choice. That does not mean my acceptance is agreement with your choice.
No idea if that is the correct DB approach or not, but I feel it was the correct thing to say for me.
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
