No, I know he can't call the shots on the property split. I'm just saying that's where he's gonna be difficult, whether he's entitled to it or not.

But I am dreading getting my name trashed with his family, because he sure isn't going to bring attention to his role in all this. I've had a good relationship with my in-laws for 21 years- I'm pretty close to several of my sisters-in-law- and I hate the thought that I may lose half my family. They will listen to what he has to say very carefully and I doubt they will question him very hard- I don't think he can do any wrong in their eyes.


W42/H42/M20
S/19,D/17
On My Own: 11/28/09