Welcome. I read through your sitch and wanted to make sure I understood something. Are you saying that when you did marriage counselling, your dad was the counselor?
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"