Still following along, just not much to offer you I suppose other than sharing your frustration.
I'm glad you've set a time table of sorts. Your man does not get it. Not sure why, not sure where his head is or what it is that hopes to have with you, if anything. The bottom line is that he has shown no real ability to be the kind of husband that you both deserve and long for. We can hope I suppose that should concrete steps be taken in the near future to end the relationship that he will have some kind of response other than throwing his arms up in the air.
Living in limbo is not always a choice we make. When we continue to hope that our marriages can be saved, yet our spouse remains non-commital, that is a terrible kind of limbo, yet one that we all have to walk through until we choose to no longer do so.
Your day is coming K. The limbo will not last forever. And I can only remind you that, in my case at least, there is a wonderful, fulfilling life still to be lived. The end is not always the end - know what I mean?
Blessings,
Bill
Last edited by Bworl; 08/05/0901:25 PM.
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
My keylogger worked. I found pictures with them in bed, letters from her trying to convince him their love is worth it, they made love on July 19, 2009.
He loves her but the kids are the problem.
I called him here. I am crushed. Mad, sad, furious. K
