Not wanting to get involved - I've heard that a time or three. Guess what - they're involved. Taking no action IS an action. Denying help or support is an action. Mini-vent on my part.
Ni-night, sleep well. Sleep always does me good. Reminds me of a computer reboot actually. You poke the Restart button and the thing behave all of a sudden after it wakes up.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137
You are still to worried about W and her actions and contacting her...
You need to pull back some more...
From your W and her friend...
Look at the friend as the OP...
Not there for sex however you know she is filling her head with crap and it will ultimately be up to your wife to decide what is best for her and her alone...
You need to take this time, do some inner soul searching and decide what is best for you...
What is best for Mac? That is the bottom line.
(((Hugs)))
Sleep tight and sweet dreams
I leave you with this...
Chinese Proverb "You cannot prevent the birds of sorrow from flying over your head, but you can prevent them from building nests in your hair"
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
And for the ABSOLUTE cherry one the top - this from one of my Partners - recently made a Director (and freeking knows it)....
Hi ,
This is merely my personal feelings and observation.
Of all the X “Shareholders / owners of the Company” you are the only one who acts exactly like a typical employee, ones that knows their rights to come in at 8.30 and leave at 5pm! I feel that your total conviction to the company is seriously lacking and unfair to the other members. You never offer to go the extra mile after hours or come into the office to help with anything that might be over your day to day workload. You also ensure that the majority of your appointments are scheduled to end near home, so that you can be home in the shortest amount of time without the need to return to the office, most of that time I suspect you are always home before 5 o'clock.
This does not go unnoticed by other members of staff and I don’t believe you set a good example of an OWNER of DIGICAPE.
K, this is in now way a criticism to your “workload” as you do work “hard”, but as someone who owns exactly the same percentage of Digicape as you, it annoys me personally to see your active contribution and willingness to go the extra mile, where I work my ass off 200% for the company to ensure its wellbeing.
Buddy, use it don’t use it, but I have to let you know how I feel and if this upsets you I apologise but I stand by every word.
Regards,
Mark
This is the PILLOCK who gets in at a stupid hour in the morning, goes home LATE at night, has a baby boy who he never sees and twins on the way.
Chinese Proverb "You cannot prevent the birds of sorrow from flying over your head..... and sh@#$*ng on your head , but you can prevent them from building nests in your hair"
That's for gloomy Mac.
Cheers Coach
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Hmm, like I just told Antlers - do not respond. Nothing. Nada. (to the idiot Partner)
If he is not in a position of authority over you, ignore him.
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And if schadenfreud is your thing, you can rest assured that his marriage either is or will be in the crapper - it's just a matter of time. Time wounds all heels, eh?
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The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137
LOL @ Coach...Adding cursing when I am trying to quit
I agree with Dia...
You are both owners from what I gathered with the same percentage...
You do your thing and let him do his...
He apparently chooses work over life and that will never end well for anyone (take a look around the boards and you will see men and women just like this)...
Tell him to bugger off (Is that cursing?)
Happy Thoughts
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
Dia, thinking about "involvement" - you're right. I think even more right. Anyone that says things like that without being asked IS doing something. They may not KNOW they're doing it but they are.
Serenity - and there was me "preaching" to you about taking things one at a time - feel a bit like a hypocrite after the moans above. (And I think bugger off is some sort of derogatory term but you're forgiven)
Coach - thanks for dropping in and making SURE I saw the quote
Kara - good to see you. And you can rhyme
Bollox to all of that crud. It's the day of the party
I AM going to sort this out with him though. I did my 24/7 stuff ten years ago and GAL. Now I really have to come home because I actually have responsibilities and they are in the right order! Home, the animules and me all need looking after.
Oh and I just thought the invite thing through... Quick aint I....
If I had invited W than that leaves me wide open to a refusal. W knows that she doesn't need an invite. Either way - she never turns up - so I'm not going to pressurize her.
The word is out though.
Go-between heard from T (enemy camp) that I was having it!
Ahhh - they can chew on it. I'm going to chew on some pork chops and beef sausage.
