Well, I am venting here. I didn't react to her text, and I won't when I get home. She is detached from me, but I think I am doing a good job of detaching from her. I sent the thank you card, not the I will love you forever anniversary card. I am cool and calm at home. I try to do my own thing like read when she is doing her thing. I go to bed different time from her, and I don't ask her to watch TV with me. I don't expect to get a card from her today, either. While it hurts, I won't let it affect my attitude. We got several anniversary cards from family yesterday at my sons bday party. I assume we will open them tonight. I know at least one of them is a gift card to "our" restaurant.
We'll see how that all goes.

Staying strong!


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.