Kevin,

I can't thank you enough for the website that you suggested! It gave me so much hope! I have been praying every day since Nov. and was just ready to give in thinking it is not God's will for us to reconsile and then you came along!

This is great! I'm reading more and more on the site and printed out some prayers for our marriage. Thanks again once more! You are right about other people giving up too quickly. I was on another site and it was about depressed spouses that walk away and they have only given them around 6 months and then filed for a divorce. They are thinking nothing will ever change and the WAS will never want to return. And one of the people that are doing going through filing for a divorce is the one that told me about this site. I just don't get it. How people could just give up. Especially if the other spouse is ill.

Even though my H filed for a divorce in Jan. he has not pursued it any further so I'm not going to give up and you have made such a difference in my life, you will never know how much! Thanks once again and I will keep you posted.

I just hope that H contacts our D like he said he would. That would be a baby step at least.

How are you doing?


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08