Hey long time no see, good to see you back around although I feel for your circumstances.
in the four months since my wife and I hvae started this part of the bjourney I did have a numbr of thoughts in regards to 'why' this was happening. I did have trouble understading why this all happened so quickly - but I have realsied that it wasnt quick for her, it took her an amount of time in her own head to get where she got back in contact with me.
Yes I am still a bit careful financially and I admit that I will do things to make sure that I am protected in case she does this again. I know now that I could have broken her financially through the court case but I dont think that is why she has come back. We have gone on for another 4 months now with no money and having to be very frugal and she is becomming more and more supportive.
While I still have nagging doubts at times (smaller and smaller) I am really seeing her as being genuine in where we are going.
Mate I truely hope you get that happiness and peace that you deserve, you have been through hell and I hope that roller coaster levels out soon.
Andrew
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To go forward you have to put the past behind you
