Hi, I'm new here and appreciate everyone that shares their stories. It really helps to know that I'm not alone in this. I am recently separated (about 1 month) and there is an OW involved. My h and I met as teens and married 8 years later right after I graduated college. We had a long distance relationship for the most part until we wed. We've been married 13 years as of July (all I got this year on our anniversary was a phone call to see how I did that day) and have two beautiful children 5 and 2. I have been reading DR and am trying the "last resort". I was getting mixed signals and some kindness from him, but that has recently stopped. He is now angry around me and annoyed and I'm not sure what to do since, I am trying my best to be kind and happy. I assume the OW is growing tired of him seeing the girls and me. He takes care of them 3 x per week during the day while I'm at work and one night a week while I'm in school. Well I graduate next week and he'll be back at work the following week, so I guess I just have to wait and see. Thanks for reading. If you have any tips on what to do when H is in serious R with OW while I'm trying to do the 180, that would be great. If not, thanks for reading and take care.
M 35 H 37 Ds, 2 & 5 Married 13 years PA since March, bomb 6/16/09 sep. 6/23/09
HIW M 35 H 37 D 5, D 2 Married 1996 Dating 1992 Met 1988 EA/PA started March 2009 Bomb 6/16/2009 Separated 6/23/2009
