Andrew, I must be dreaming, this can't be you posting! My W said those EXACT same words, I mean EXACT! "She said to me that she had realised that this was not making her happy. The closer it got to the court case the more she realised how final it all was. She then told me I was her rock and her best friend and that she did not want to loose me from her life. As she was saying this she stared to cry that real painful cry that you can tell comes from the heart" FU****G EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Do you understand me? E X A C T L Y !?!?!?!?!?
Three days later, I got a fax from her attorney that she was not going to settle per our agreement, and now wanted more $$$$$$$$. They want to re-appraise the house, and have me pay her the balance of what it is worth now, and what we sold it for! She wants $750.00 per month, and wants me to pay her lawyer $11,000.00 more.SHE SUCKERED ME IN WITH HER SWEETNESS!
The WA's cannot be trusted. Every time she comes to me crying, it cost me more money! I would bet that your W found out she was pregnant before she started all the "NICE" stuff to you! Now she is milking you for more $$$$$ and you are falling for it! The "switch" doesn't just doesn't turn on, it DOES take time! TREAD VERY CAREFULLY MY FRIEND!