Picked up and took D4 out to play for a while last night...including dinner with her - was fun as always. Took her home around 7:45, and W was there waiting for us to return. Had more nice interaction...
Things still going well as of last night. More of the same - friendliness, smiles, conversation, interest in each other...and yes, the foot / leg rub I gave last night again was appreciated sincerely...
I left with an unsolicited hug, as well. Quite a twist from the last few (many) months... I'm so glad to see some softening and warmth from her. Things just "feel" better between us, too. I suspect she is feeling better about things as well.
Me: 46 W: 46 M: 9.5 yrs D4, D9 D filed by her 11/3/08 Agrees to try rec at mediation 1/28/09 Says she still wants D in counseling 3/25/09 W and I back in DB counseling (!) 8/20/09 3rd Bomb 9/2/09