It was only when I felt that I was written off that I finally detached and dropped the rope in my situation. Your heart can only take so much rejection before it completely shuts down. For me, it was when my W stated she was only sticking around for the kids...I felt abandoned. I had lost all hope for reconciliation. I feel you are getting closer to dropping the rope with each and every passing day.
Now that I dropped the D bomb on my W, our roles have completely reversed. My W is trying very hard to make our relationship work. I am finding it very difficult to reciprocate. My heart has shut down and it may require a miracle to allow her to re-enter. I hope your W "wakes up" before your heart shuts down.
Thanks, LFH
ME: 38 W: 35 D2.5 and S5 Married 12 years Separated (same house, different rooms) INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009 The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009