"I am seeing some glimpses of my wife thinking about her part. It has come up a couple of times recently how when she says somethings, it really isn't as clear as she had thought. That is a good sign
I think it is very important for WAW’s to own there part in things. They seem to need to be reminded at times.
Just the other day my waw was going on and on about how I got us in debt 4 times in the past and that I am just going to do it again etc etc etc….
So when she finished, I asked her to look around the house, look inside look outside, try and find one thing, just one thing where she was not only at the store when we bought it, but took part in picking it out …..
This was met with silence and look on her face ….. its amazing how far off they get if you do not reel them in once in awhile.
