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Why do I get the feeling everyone is backing away from me?


Because that's what you are thinking. Change your thoughts and you change your feelings. Maybe FIL was trying to ease some tension by joking with you, maybe MIL is going to retire from doing taxes, maybe you are dreaming about what is dominating your thoughts.
Your love for your wife is draining because you are hurting and not getting any of your needs met by her. It's a feeling, it's real and it will change.

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WTF, now Im being blamed for my dreams?!?!!!


And you can get in trouble for things you did in her dreams! laugh

Cheers


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.