I worried(prob still do worry) bout the kids in all of this.But my GF who`s been through ssimilar herslef, explained that kids have a different perspective of their parents than we have of each other as spouses and that they probably didn`t view H in as negative light as I expected.
No I`m not happy with H`s lack of involvement with and indeed, his stated indifference towards the kids. But Hey, I think I`ve gotta drop that rope too.
Anyway, after five days showing my kids a good time(or so I thought!) DS declared today that Dad was much nicer than me!
No matter what, kids are much more forginv and indeed, notice a lot less than us spouses. Maybe we should aim to be as accepting, and more tolerant, as they are.
