C - I know it's hard. We all do. But, one of the main DB rules is to stop doing what doesnt work. If you stop giving her all the attention and stop being the supportive friend she will LEARN to miss it and APPRECIATE again. In the future, when she shows you RESPECT then you will try harder to be a friend. You wont resent it as much because it will feel mutual and you will feel it naturally.
You are doing great though. Your last post sounded right where you need to be. A little depression in your voice, but good. You need to feel detached. Like you dont care anymore. That is where you start second guessing what you really want. Is she really worth all this? Then and only then is when she would sense it and want to chase you. If she is READY that is. It has to be REAL and CONSISTENT. Keep on working on making YOU HAPPY. You NEED to learn and show in your ACTIONS that you will be. She will sense the lose of CONTROL. She NEEDS to feel that and learn she cant take YOU and your LOVE for GRANTED.
You need to feel detached. Like you dont care anymore. That is where you start second guessing what you really want. Is she really worth all this? Then and only then is when she would sense it and want to chase you. If she is READY that is. It has to be REAL and CONSISTENT. Keep on working on making YOU HAPPY. You NEED to learn and show in your ACTIONS that you will be. She will sense the lose of CONTROL. She NEEDS to feel that and learn she cant take YOU and your LOVE for GRANTED.
