James, I'm so sorry you have to be going through this. I think puppy compared it to a kick in the chest; I can only describe finding out about this as a kick in the balls. Please stay calm and rational, I know it will be hard everytime you look at her.
you wrote, "Either she comes 100% clean and tells me all or I have no words for her."
Are you looking for her to tell you all the sorrid details or just to fess up to the fact she cheated? If you asked her if we could try and put this behind us and work on this marriage and she said, no. what would you do? Steve. Take care stay calm get some ADs if necessary.
