Thanks Dia. I will check it out. My W is going away for 10 days on business, altho' I suspect OW may meet her where she is going.
At least for the next 10 days I do not have to feel like I am walking on eggshells, or wondering whether or not she is going to be sleeping at home or if I will see her & OW somewhere in the neighborhood...
Me: 50; Wife: 48 Gay; civil union in NJ no kids M: 15 years, together 17 Bomb (OW) 2/09 (EA 3mos/PA 3mos) ILYBINILWY W out of house, w/OW, in separation talks, nothing filed