Forward - That is an interesting concept. Friendship that is. Maybe it is my ego that got so busted up that "friendship" seems like one hell of a demotion. Maybe I'm just trying to protect myself.

I mean it just seems real difficult having been intimate with someone for 30 yrs, having them cheat on you, lie to you, blame you for everything,come pretty close to ruining you financially AND now they are sleeping in another man's bed....and we're supposed to be friends?

I have no frame of reference for this.My Ex is remarried. How can you possibly reconcile with a married woman? It feels like I'm promoting cheating or something. Maybe I'm being neurotic


Me- 47
W- 45
Married 22 years
Together 30 years
No Kids, 1 dog, 1 Cat
2005 - 2007 W in MLT
1/08 - Crisis hits
3/08 W drops Bomb and leaves in the middle of the night. Admits to PA
4/08 W files for divorce
8/08 Divorce final