Also, I did check with a lawyer today and I can't file for support unless i'm filing for divorce or legal separation.

On the other hand, if he's insistent that the kids and I stay in the house, I can get "alimony" in addition to the child support to cover part of the mortgage.


Me - 30, H - 32
T - 10, M - 6, D - 1
DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2
on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10)
Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011