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Im not a big flower person, typical male person I think well they are going to die in a few days so its a waste of money - well DAH forgve me and my poor male radar here.


That got me LOL! I'm the same way. The only flower I would give her were potted ones ... at least then they would last longer, but they never received the enthusiasm that a bouquet of the fresh cut flowers get.

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Im going to make a point of getting something sent to her each week, nothing big just a gift to let her know that I am thinking of her. I want to keep some element of suprise in this so I will put my mind into thinking of unique gifts ways to deliver them.


This is an excellent change to make and can have a very big effect, especially over large distances.

I hope you see some results very soon on your goals to physically get closer to what you want.

'til later,
KAW