Thanks. I read your thread. And I do hope I fare better. Sounds like it has been a long hard road. I did order the books today. Will read them tomorrow. It is month 3 and no change. She wrote a letter to my mother today saying she was sorry for hurting her and no matter what the outcome, she wants to have a good relationship. Right now my entire family despises her for what she is doing....

this will definitely be my biggest test in life. I do feel a little better the last couple days. Been detaching a bit more each day. I also get a little more resentful each day. Makes it easier to handle I guess. I just hope she decides to make an effort before it is too late for me to come back. She went out tonight dressed to kill as usual. I make sure I am gone with the kids before she leaves and sleeping before she comes home...

Thanks.


Remarried 6 mo
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