Make him notice you but keep those ties out of his little fingers. Act as if the family is close and warm, and overlook or bite your tongue when they tick you off. You know it quite possible could happen and you can prepare for it.
Good job on the weight loss! I am sure you are going to be smokin' hot in the dress.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.